Right now our arrangement is that she must pay for all her living expenses and all utilities in the house as well as any credit card debt she has on her credit cards, she is also paying for a babysitter to watch the baby those times she has her but must work. I am continuing to pay the mortgage for the house. Her expenses match her income and she will have very little money at the end of the month. We are taking turns with the baby; I get her for a week, she gets her for week.
At this point in time there is no other man. The guy she slept with is no longer in the picture. But I do know that she has signed up for a Matching website; so there may be another man in the future. I don’t know what I will do at that point.
Thanks again for your correspondence; talking about this does help.