Wife is cheating, am sad but confused?

[Truegritter]

I could not get her to admit anything else. So confrontation about what I heard, no. Does having her listen to tapes make sense?

She will deny this is going on even if you catch her in the act.

She will deflect the blame.

She will blame you.

She will blame anyone but herself.

She will tell you how great OM is and how sh!tty you are.

HIL do you think she is having an inappropriate relationship with this guy?

Yes?

Good enough for me. Don't argue with her. Don't listen to any of the lies that follow.

What do you want to happen now?

How is your detaching going trying to figure out how to convince her she is having an affair?