GW, I think it is more the "fantasy" than the OM/EA. I went through it but I don't know how to explain it.
I hope I am not repeating myself, but I would like to share something that I found to be very helpful on the subject of forgiveness. Forgiveness is not based on whether or not the person deserves it, b/c in most cases.....they don't. Forgiveness is based on "us", the forgiver. It is who & what we are, not the one we are forgiving.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
