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You're all splitting hairs.


Who is "you all"?

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Deceit isn't the kind of foundation on which to build a family
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Now wait just one minute. I don't recall anyone saying to be deceitful. But there is a time and a place for everything....even the Bible teaches that. We all have to have a little wisdom when we tell some "truths" to our families, don't you think? Would you want your children to know you masterbated while looking at porn? Well, hey....the truth's the truth, right? If they or anyone asks.....you'd tell them, right? Why not tell everyone everything that was ever private? As long as it's the truth!

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That's pretty disturbing news I keep hearing about people getting BANNED from this forum for speaking the truth. Maybe I signed up for the wrong forum.


Well, here's the thing....Michele doesn't teach exposure....Marriage Builders do. She allowed things to go for a very long time before she put a stop to it and then I think it might have been their choice, but I don't know.

She gives us a right to our opinion but she doesn't want us cramming it down another's throat, expecially when it is contrary to what she teaches. I may or may not agree with everything, but if we are going to stay around on her board then I think we need to respect her wishes. Right now, her wishes are that we stop pushing exposure.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!