coach a few more great suggestions for the nice guy would be: - be an ever better "super" nice guy!!! - do every chore around the house - cook every meal - work full time - take care of 99% of all child care related responsibilities - buy the cheating spouse gifts, dinners, and always offer plenty of foot rubs - tell her you love her and you're fine with her being with another man because at least you still have her in your dreams at night when you rest your head on that tear soaked pillow - pay for her cell phone bill, the cell phone she uses to call and text the other man with - pay her credit card bills, the credit card she uses to buy new clothes, shoes, underwear, manicures/pedicures for herself along with hotel rooms, dinners and gifts for the other man - generally be passive and don't stand up for yourself ever, self-respect, self-value, self-esteem are all overrated concepts anyways - pretty much wander around clueless to the fact that you are killing every last ounce of attraction left between you and your wife
That's a good list to start with, feel free to add more items to the list that will help the "nice guy" be even more.... NICE!