Totally agree with Coach, my H walked after supposedly trying for three months, yeah trying to carry on walking and making my life hell!
I found DB straight away, he visited two or three times on his terms then I went NC! Soon woke him up me moving on, you say it having some effect...DONT RUSH IT! It took six months for my H to move back in, I never ever asked or begged just made it look like the best option, well who wouldnt want to be with the fun sexy wife..
Second key word is BOUNDARIES! Under NO circumstances do you start talking or relating while she has OM! You are worth respecting and she is going to do it whether she likes it or not, if she pushes walk away, it is the most powerful thing I learnt to do, I dont argue I walk away, if I want attention I get busy GAL and he misses me!
But as always keep doing it only for you! If Mrs T sees the light its a bonus!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!