Thanks Alb,

Totally get the cake eating part of this.

If I knew that it was cake eating, I would

have handled all of my responses differently.

I don't know yet.

I do make a lot of assumptions.

She is still seeing IC on a weekly basis.

She knows something is not right. She has said

she will probably have to see an IC for the rest

of her life.

MLC'rs SAY a lot of things.

As an LBS'r, I don't have an option

to just assume the worst. I choose to

walk a path that is comfortable for me.

I have not regretted the path I have

taken as I look back. I would like to

keep it that way.

Every time I think I have messed up,

I have learned something that may not

have revealed itself if I did not mess

up. So are they truly mess ups then?

Or are they part of this journey for

us LBS'rs?

As painful as this journey is, I don't

really want to have my W back before

she is done cooking.

Lance has mentioned some of this in his posts I think.