"I can see why you would think the kids should not get duplicates for Xmas, but the kids are living in two household. I think it is perfectly fine that they get duplicates. It will make their lives easier than constantly transporting items back and forth."
Really think about both responses. Think about the one that speaks YOUR truth. Which one is from the same old dan...Which one might SURPRISE her..Which one will get an emotional response? Remember, I am just giving you a different choice. I am not saying your is wrong. Your original response may be the best...Only you know.
A guideline, if it feels uncomfortable, it is most likely the right thing to do. Do not fear her anger.
Think outside your box. LEAD. Be attractive.
It is great that you have a documented agreement from her that you are OK to move: SAVE THIS!!
"I'm not concerned about you moving to Antioch and would not have any objections."
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
