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That’s why I feel that tension now would be a bad idea. That what I need to do is give her some space to sort her priorities out. I understand that after doing so I may not be a priority, but than that would mean this divorce is the right thing.

I'd keep walking if my H didn't care to work up a sweat fighting for our M. Just telling you how you sound to a woman.

I don’t want to trick my wife into wanting me back by acting like something I am not. By creating some temporary strong feelings that may make her think twice for a while, but then change it back once the tension and strong feelings die down as life resumes.

What if the strong feelings and second thoughts gave her pause, and the two of you actually talked about meeting each other's needs for a change?

I am me; I don’t have self esteem issues, I like who I am. I am intelligent, caring, loyal, strong minded, gregarious when I need to be and quite when it’s appropriate, and yes I take care of my baby better than many mothers do. If that’s not enough for her than it would be better to move on.

Get ready to be single, Dug.

She doesn't respect you. That's why she is sleeping with another man. Your posture at this time will not attract her, nor will it nurture any repair of the disrespect she harbors for you.

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