The door is wide open. He now knows he can leave and I won't stop him - yet he is still here. I've decided to continue to work on myself and the things I need to change in order to become a better person. I've decided to no longer seek out "intel", ask him questions, etc. I have been pleasant with him but have not sought out any physical contact beyond a pat on the back. I'm not sure how else to be around him - any pointers would be great.


M9+ T 11+
Me42 H44
2 kids under 5
IlYBNILWY -3/10
A discovered late 8/10
H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later
"Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10