^ "Hung out"-- we went to a comedy club, he invited, then had drinks afterward.
I actually know his sister and boyf, IR. I see them all socially because my bff goes with his bff and its all the same group of friends.
Earlier this year, for my bday, (when stbx didn't show up, remember that?) this guy was there, along with my bff and his bff. They celebrated my bday with me.
And you are right--I must tread carefully. So what do I say-- that a "double date" sounds too formal? But the thing is I don't mind hanging w/ him and he is attractive but.. what to do?