What's da haps, man?

[ImprovedRomeo]

Splain "hung out witht he friend guy"? ok I'm just being obnoxious

I do think it's a bit pressuring but it is what you make it. If you don't want to go then don't, if you think you can handle it as a get together then go for it. Who knows you might like his sister and you guys can do some fun stuff together- girls night out sorta deal?

However, keep in mind that most guys don't want to be just 'friends' with women they're attracted to. I don't want you to freak out but it is what it is. Friendships can and do happen but initially of course it's not what a guy wants. The good ones, however, will be patient and respect your boundaries. Sometimes they'll push the boundary a bit to see if there's any change in your direction but back off when there isn't yet. If he does subtly touch you just move a bit without paying attention to it. If that doesn't work then you just tell him sorry you're just not there yet. Keep an open channel of communication.