You're my kind of sleeze, IR hey, didn't mean to come off all sanctimoniously or anything (it's the morphine! ) but often in our society we follow to easily the "if it feels good, do it" mode of thinking about life. CTH, had a very strong initial response to the bf and I think we often need to listen to that little voice because when we start thinking we can legitimize just about anything. If CTY is going out with another guy's gf then he is quite likely playing a part in infidelity or is starting on the path, which he knows all too well is a horribly painful thing. I just think he should avoid that road at all costs. Hey, I think I just saw Jesus in my coffee cup...is that ever cool! When does this stuff wear off?