WAW 20 years and wants out

[Pensacolabroken]

Serenity,

I understand that and I am going to try to steer her to that conclusion but she is at the moment using him as her emotional crutch/pawn to keep me in the doormat phase, I just gave a little on that point to agree with her so she will have to think in complete terms of our sons welfare also. She is a GREAT mom.. and She is using her desperation because she knows I am an involved Dad.. she is trying to remain in the house.. ultimatly she also needs to face the consequences of being a single mom.. I am not going to "control" her anymore remember? She is a free willed person.