Why continue to take these calls? Why continue to allow yourself to be dragged into your H's nightmare.
Personally, I think it is time for Mila to cut off all contact and really just live for Mila.
F*ck what H is doing, what H is not doing.
It should be more about what Mila is doing.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans