WAW 20 years and wants out

[Pensacolabroken]

Serenity,

I think I did ok. I did it to become empowered and let her know I am not going to stand by while she plays me for a fool.

I went to sons parent teacher conference and while waiting to go in she comes up full of solutions:
1. I (LBS) should move to my Dads house 30 minutes away.
I say NO you are the one leaving me, You need to move out.
2. She has a friend who just completed a divorce and we can do it uncontested for 500 retainer and 2700 dollars
I said - good make that appointment
3. She says I will take probably 50K for the house and get two cars (one is an antique Italian Car we brought from Italy)
I can keep my two trucks and the boat
I say Fine
4. She says, I am not moving out..
I say yes you are it is my house. She says it is "our" house.
5. I say you need to leave. She again says if she goes she is taking our son, I told her fine.
6. She says what about the dogs? I said you can have them

we go into teacher conf and as we walk out, I tell her "I am serious about you moving out. I want you out. I told her to make a list of stuff she wants and I will make a list also and we will wait until the 29th MC session before telling our son to get some guidance from MC.

I tell her before leaving, You need to leave the house and I want you out.

So that is where we left it.