To clarify my pov I said it because sometimes the society puts too much pressure on us with all these made up rules, what's wrong, what's right, what's moral, what isn't. If CTH truly feels that it's unethical then fine I agree but if he merely 'thinks' that it is then I stand by my suggestion based on the fact that C35 is ok with it and if the two of them are ok then that's all that matters.
I'm not saying to do anything sly or sleezy, just be her friend give her a chance to get to know you. Who knows!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again