I really want to thank everyone for their responses, everyone has helped me think from so many angles my head is spinning a little. This is kind of lime mel earning to speak chinese.
As far as how have I showed her that, your absolutely right and that is one of the things that I know I have failed on my part, but if I show her that now wouldn't that be me pursuing her? If I go and say your so great, you deserve all this etc. Isn't that me being clingy now?
