Seriously? Tell him no, I don't want to discuss the divorce? When it's clearly what he believes he wants?
Jennifer – yes I am serious! Do you want to talk about D? Do YOU want a D? If not, then why do YOU have to talk about it? Ultimately, if this is something that HE wants he will move forward with it. You should feel free to talk about it when YOU feel ready to NOT when HE wants YOU to.
Jennifer, IMO, you need to sit down and figure out what it is that you really want for YOU and YOUR kids. What YOUR H wants should not play into YOUR thought process.
Your H is not happy and NOTHING YOU do will change that for him – RIGHT NOW. So maybe it is time for Jennifer to sit down and start really focusing on HER happiness and let H spin in the wind. Your H is on an ugly rollercoaster and I suggest that you not get on that ride.
Be happy Jennifer. Make a life for you and your kids. If your H wants to join well then great…either way…you and kids should be happy.
Maybe it is about time that YOU really limit your contact with H.
Stop responding to text
Stop answering every call he places to you
Just let him GO
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
