she has said in the past that I don't need her, that I seem to do everything and she isn't needed
what is she really telling you?
is this a partnership?
how do you think you handling "everything" makes her feel?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.