Extremely busy life these days. Sports and kids is almost a fulltime job. Heres the latest.
My wifes brother who works for me comes into my office today. He tells me that my wife spent 3 hrs at his house yesterday and she wants to come home but she is terrified that things will be the same and she knows if she comes home she has to stay as she cant do this to the kids again. She knows she made the biggest mistake of her life.
I didnt even talk to him about it. I said thanks now get to work.
WTF am I supposed to do with that. To me its sounds like she is putting it all on me. She wants to know that the changes i have made are sustainable. What the hell does she think I've been doing for the last 8 months? I will not go to her, I want text her, I wont even start a conversation with her. I still drop off a card everyday, as I committed to that and my kids want to see it through. Just dont know what to do next.
We did have some interaction on Sunday for my sons 13th birthday party. She wouldnt come for Thanksgiving dinner with her family, but she made it to the party. We didnt have a conversation, but during the dinner etc, we both talked about whatever everyone was talking about.
So the drama continues, and she is still at the OM house. She told her brother she is in her own room. He is just letting her stay there until she gets a job and somewhere to go.
