Why did you tip your hand on the legal stuff?

Rule #1: Do not pursue, reason, or bargain.

Rule #2: No R-talk by you ... especially LEGAL stuff

Your demand should have been simple:

I will not live in an open marriage. End all contact with OM or move out. End of story.


Instead you tipped your legal hand to try to prevent her from leaving (she's not stupid). Bad, bad move.

M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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