Hmm. This was a problem for me early on in our marriage - where I snooped and had no business doing so. He was doing nothing wrong in the past. The work I have to do is to show him I am capable of not snooping and that I actually can trust him. He will not agree to letting me have access to his accounts at this point - he isn't even sure he wants to work on our marriage.
M9+ T 11+ Me42 H44 2 kids under 5 IlYBNILWY -3/10 A discovered late 8/10 H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later "Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10
