She apologises and asks you not to be mad because she knows she did wrong and you called her out on it.
That works, but do not get angry or mad. Keep it calm and cool.
When she talked about her feelings did you validate them?
Here is what was said on another thread.
Originally Posted By: Coach
...Plus women really want their husbands to fight for them not be docile or compliant with her feelings. She knows she's wrong and wants to her man to take a stand because she matters to him. Woman aren't attracted to men who will let a women run around and not take action. Rewarding or ignoring bad behavior gets you more bad behavior.
