He's going to say it's a invasion of privacy, it's not. Privacy is when you close the bathroom door, this is about keeping secrets. Secrets aren't part of a healthy relationship. Make sense now?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.