Very good point. Right now other than distancing myself and and not needing her I don't know what else I should do. Another thing that I've noticed that she has said to me is please don't get mad at me, or please don't hate me. This came after an Argument a few weeks ago in which I got angry about something financially that happened that she could have stopped if she would have just taken 5 seconds. I called, got angry, and told her that I was going to finish the divorce papers with my lawyer. She said ok as far as the papers. As soon as I got off the phone with her she sent me the text saying don't hate me please. She the fixed the problem within an hour and texted me several times about meeting later to talk. Of course that was the beginning of my 3 week slide b/c when she mentioned talking I jumped at the opportunity, but only ended up on the phone with her fo 40 mins whining. This was the time though that she mentioned some things like how I made her feel etc.
