My goal is to be in a relationship with someone who is just as responsible as me about the relationship. I would prefer that to be her, but I know that might not be a possibility. I know I can forgive her for this, but from what I've gotten from her a while back, it seems like her cheating wasn't even the reason for us getting here.
Also coach, while I did tell her at first that the divorce was a good idea, that was right after it happened. I did have a 3 week backslide before I found my new resolve.