Originally Posted By: idontunderstand
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I'm feeling pretty good about my custody case. There are several things the teacher said that would help prove she was not watching out for our kids' best interests while she was at school coaching.

She is only concerned with herself and no one else. Too bad the courts don't always take all of this into consideration.


I don't know about your state, but in mine, the default position is joint custody unless you can show some SERIOUS deficiency and neglect.

I don't know if you were talking about YOU being sure to get joint custody, or justifying full custody for yourself.

If it's the latter, you still want to think about the kids and not use custody as a punishment for your W. The kids want their parents, and depriving them of one won't be good for them unless they are getting abused/neglected. I don't think that is your intent.


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