On the other hand I am happy now dating OW and getting the affection and attention I need.
Just playing devils advocate ... do you think you can truly objectively evaluate your sitch with your wife with this ^^^^ factored in? Can any of this be "the grass is greener" that our WASs experience?
Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
My happiness is much more important than financial stablity.
Agreed.
Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
And We can't just work on things "for the Kids"
Nope. Not long term, but I have seem some threads where the WAS and LBS decided to try for the kids, and in the process they rediscovered each other, learned new R and communication skills and came out of it better off. Have no idea if this would happen in your sitch, but don't write off "the kids" as a valid starting point.
Peace brotha ... no easy choices here ... Happy Belated too by the way, bet the surprise party was fun! PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
