My Situation - any thoughts or ideas

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No affair. Yeah, we kept our regular date night schedule so that we'd have a chance to talk. Just dinner at the Mexican joint near our house. Kids with a sitter.

Last 2 have gone great, but this is first one since she's been more angry and tense. I'm going to be cool, confident, and maybe a tad flirty (that ok to do? I don't want to come off as pursuing). No R talk unless she starts it.