"There's nothing wrong with how I do the laundry. If I have a question about how to do it, I'll be sure to ask, ok?".
Seriously, who cares?
That has to be your attitude. Detach, detach, detach.
You're better off on your own than letting somebody else get you worked up, so go live your life, be polite and calm in your interactions with your W, but be firm, and don't take crap: calmly call her on crappy behavior.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
