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[Edmond Dantes]

Sorry to hear that, Did something happen or are you just trying to get off the emotional rollercoaster?

[Lostinlife]

Sorry to hear that, Did something happen or are you just trying to get off the emotional rollercoaster?

Just want off the rollercoaster and move on. The situation is as bleak as it gets.

[Lostinlife]

Called the lawyer yesterday, I'll meet with him Tuesday morning.

If she wants POSOM so bad, let her and Mr. Wonderful move on.

I'm sick of terms like WAW, WS etc, we all know what they are, they aren't walk-aways, wandering, etc.

There are single women everywhere, why some scumbag wants my wife and family is beyond me.

I'll take my blame for the 50%, but there was no physical abuse, I didn't put her down, no infidelity on my behalf...but she wanted another man.....not the father of her kids.

There is no reason for anyone to have an affair, no excuse...period.

I'd like to thank her family of experts on divorce, give her all the money she needs so she can be away and start over with POSOM.

She has no respect for me....

So this begins my journey, I have 2 great kids, who I know they love me. I have noone else, but them. Financially, I am screwed, I'll make the best of it.

I will admit, I miss my wife, the private jokes, the look in her eyes. Sadly, that person is gone.

To be continued.

[KEM]

Do the best for yourself and your kids. Don't know that I could get past an affair either. I agree that there is no excuse for an affair. Stay strong.

[Lostinlife]

Do the best for yourself and your kids. Don't know that I could get past an affair either. I agree that there is no excuse for an affair. Stay strong.

Thanks KEM, maybe I could work through it, maybe I couldn't...we'll never know. It's her lack of respect that finally pushed me.

When my 5 y/o has to tell me about his Halloween parade at school, and tells me about his fundraisers, and she won't....it's just too much.

She won't meet me 1/2 way, the 5 y/o wants to know what Santa is going to do, are we going to be together for Christmas morning, etc.

She is worried about POSOM, that's it.

I'm sick of the lies, cheating, etc.

I have my kids, and I am sure as heck keeping my dignity.

She wants out, won't talk, there is the door.

I often wonder, do they feel guilt? Will they ever feel guilt?

[Lostinlife]

I also wonder, why hasn't she filed herself? She has threatened it enough times.

[Lostinlife]

Kind of ironic, this whole thing has been gut wrenching, I'm getting gray at 38.

When my wife gets the papers, she'll probably have a toast to celebrate.

110 days ago, we were at the beach, having a great time.

Wondering if she'll ever look at my boys and question her actions.

[Lostinlife]

Had the boys yesterday, we went to the local amusement park for their Halloween special, what a blast! Luckily she had somewhere to "go" last evening, so I got the bonus Saturday evening.

Woke up this morning and pulled my back, this is where being alone sucks bad.

Tuesday I'll do my part and get this thing moving along. No contact from her, she had one of her brothers meet me, and my oldest asked me if we could play Saturday night so Mommy could go out

Our anniversary is this weekend coming up, I'll be thinking about it all week. Her birthday is right after that. Wish me luck, won't be an easy week for those of us alone.

[KEM]

Thanks for the post. Wish it were better for you. I know how tough it is. Try to stay busy this week.

[Lostinlife]

Here's one.....should have expected this.

I had a devastating death in my family today, devastating.

I got a text from my wife, sorry for your loss, sent to my sisters and I at the same time.

Hard to believe 4 months ao I had a family.