Moving Forward

[gutwrenching]

Thanks Sandi! Good to see you back and helping people with your computer up and running. You have a lot to offer. And thanks for your nice words and encouragement.

Things continue to go well for us. We have our ups and downs, but all in all, we continue to do well.

I am still trying to deal with everything that I know went on and still working on the forgiveness piece--some of the recent posts on forgiveness have really helped me think about things and think thru things. W has told me a lot about their EA, she doesn't like to talk about it, but is willing too if it helps me...that is what she has told me.

I hope and think you are probably right about the attraction fading. She has told me a few things that show it was fading for the last month despite the fact she was holding onto the EA, they were planning a get together shortly after the move, etc...

These days we both still see his name and see comments from him occassionally. We all have a mutual friend on facebook. One comment by OM led her to say "can you believe that, I would have had a real problem with that, that's not how I want our kids to be brought up." (he is spoiling his kids, he grew up very affluent and has family money...my W and I didn't grow up priveleged like that). So again, hopefully seeing he isn't only chance at true happiness

And at one point a couple of weeks after OM contacted W and we were having one of those down times to work thru, she said there was a part of her that wanted to contact OM but it wasn't worth it...she said: a part of me wants to tell him what a pompous @ss he is for sending me that email and saying the things he did.