Sounds as if the status quo is status around your place. Did I read you had a new job? Or did I dream it? If so congratulations. If not, did I tell you I foresee the future. lol (Wish I did, I would've saw this coming and shot the SOB)
Are you comfortable with OW's H giving you play by play like that? I would think it would stop your healing process and for him, just misery loving company.
