She came downstairs all friendly and cordial... I told her I will seee her at the parent teacher conference. She said Yea I will be there..
then she made sure I saw her put the MC homework in her bag.
I left the room. She came in and said "what made you change your mind about me moving out? I said it doesnt matter. She said well the end of the month deadline isnt going to work, I need time and we need to figure out the money.. I told her to move in with her Boyfriend.. she said "I am not moving in with him" I said I dont really care where she goes. She said the OM was not the reason we are getting a divorce. I told her she is denial and is lying to me and I am done with it, I am looking my self in the mirror and liking what I see. I told her I am committed to MC for myself and my son. I am fixing my responsibility in the last 20 years, but she needs to accept her responsibility for what she has done for the last 2 months. She just gave me her eye roll. She said so you dont want to cohabitate and pay down all of our debt first.. I said NO.. I want you out.. I am finally taking action.. the door is open I am not controlling you.. you have what you want and you can leave..
I told her I am DONE discussing this I want her OUT.
she left..
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10