It is a great feeling to be doing something. But never lose sight of what you are trying to accomplish? What is that exactly? Do you still want to reconcile? If so, under what circumstances would you accept her back? Can you name three concrete steps she could take?

If you don't want her back, what will you do is she comes totally clean, hands you a NC letter she has written to him, quits Tae Kwondo, asks your forgivness and wants to go to C?

M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011