My plan was to first flush it out and let her know I am done with the BS and I have my respect.
I am going to remain calm and detach. I also am going to go on with the things I discuss yesterday that I was going to do like Sod the Yard.
I have a parent teacher conference today (with WAW) and will go to that. Then I will come home and do what I want to do.. I am not going to engage her for a couple of Days.. I am going to let her come to me.. I have chosen to stay in my house she wants to leave.. I say let her...
now I see her options as this.. LOTS of phone calls today to her "friend" and today IS a Tae Kwondo day... so she will go tonight and they can't pretend they are simply friends anymore.. it is OUT IN THE OPEN. He now will have to accept her and they can work out how they will do whatever they are doing.. he can have her.
this weekend is her weekend.. I am going to enjoy my Son.. unless she cancels her weekend.. then I am still going to njoy my Son...
I finally feel like I am doing something.
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10