Thanks everyone. You all gave me something different to think about.
Ok here's the latest list of things that my H has changed...
-told me that now I have "power" in the relationship -did not run away when we had a disagreement and discussion -actually did something around the house when asked
This is what my H still needs to change...
-needs to find his patience...his anxiety makes me anxious! -still scared to move forward and has no plan -needs to make more of an effort to help around the house...without resenting it -needs to not say the F word all the time...I hate that!!! -needs follow through pursuing me and try to connect with me
The D clock is still ticking...2 more months...not sure what to do. It wasn't really that long ago that I would have done anything for my H to move home...now I really don't want my H to live with me until more changes...if they will!
