Thanks My sister-in-law who is close tomy wife called and wanted to know how I was. She knew that Virginia had threatned legal action. She even said that her sister is mixed up and needs space. She said she was surprised I have been so supportive of my wife since she first dropped the bomb a year ago. My wife called tonight but I did not pick up the phone and there was no voice mail. I appreciate everyone helping me. I dont know what I would do if I did not have the input of all you wonderful people. Bobby O