I am having a really hard time with my D 5 and D 8. The exchanges between STBX and I are getting ever more painful for me.
When W drops the girls off at my house the crying is unbelievable. Once I get them in the house they both have said to me " we do not want to be hear we want to be with mom " My d5 said " I do not miss you when we are not here dad" .
As my W only works part time they do a lot of stuff together. My 8 year old said " dad all you do is drop us off at daycare and go to work" I find it hard to explain how I need to work ...they are just so young to see any of this.
The drop offs at my house are so bad I am thinking about choosing a neutral site for the exchange. I am not sure that will change anything. The words my girls say to me are painful to say the least, it's obvious they do not know what hey are saying.
I will be looking into a school councillor for my D8 she seems to be withdrawing more and more. Stitch
