Do you feel safe in the house with him? Are you concerned about the safety of your kids? If so, then honestly I would leave or ask him to leave immediately.
I feel safe when he's at the house. He isn't here much. Maybe a few hours a week, if that. I'm not concerned about the safety of the kids.
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1- he faking this chit and trying to manipulate you into agreeing with the divorce. If this is the case I really think you only have two options. One - validate as best you can OR two take a step back and ask yourself if this is something that you really want to live with. Remember standing is a choice YOU make.
Seriously? Tell him no, I don't want to discuss the divorce? When it's clearly what he believes he wants?
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2 - if you feel that he really is that depressed I think you need to call his doctor asap. Just remember Jennifer - no one can help him except HIM. You can't make him see something that he does not want to see.
I know I can't help him, I do know this.
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How is your H right now?
Not sure since he doesn't live here. He texted me right after he left tonight saying I'm not blaming you...and something else I forget because I deleted it. Then my son tells me that daddy said "I love mommy, I am just not in love with her and that we won't be together anymore" I texted him and said thanks for letting me know you talked with S8 and told him you're not in love with me" He replies and says that our son is ridiculously smart and that our son is the one that said that. BULLLLLLLLL SH&&&&T! I'm not doing this to my kids. I'm not going back and saying well daddy said YOU said that, not him. WTF is wrong with this man? There is no way my son understands the difference of loving someone and being "in love" with someone for him to point that out to my H. He is warped!
