Jennifer, I'm sorry. I didnt read back on your thread.
A couple of things - if you think your h is going to harm himself - call his doctor.
I know how hard it is to watch someone you love so depressed.
But, as long as you are not afraid of him doing anything to you or the kids or himself, you are going to have to let him get the help he needs on his own. You cant force him.
Just let him know that you are there for him if he needs you.
Does he have a family member that he can go to?
Do you have support?
Try your best to remain calm. Rest. Eat. Sleep.
And take care of yourself. You are going to need a lot of strength in the coming weeks.
