fb2- I guess the red flags for me personally was that he was cheap, he didn't bother to dress nice to meet me for the first time, and his political beliefs were opposite mine...

but the cheating EXh is not DBing. He agreed to take care of the yard work.

No word from city guy on email since the 14th! I am tempted to email him a "how's it going?" email. Yet he has replied in the past...usually within a couple of days. This guy was one who winked at me initially, so he was pursuing at first.

It's just that it really ticks me off when the men do not follow up even if they aren't interested anymore! And I never met City Guy.At least I have let the men I have dated know that I was or wasn't interested. What cowards to not just say it. How much easier can you get- via email with no face to face interaction!

And even though I am not interested in anything with Country Guy; same thing. No rejection. Just no follow up? grow up, already!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004