Do you feel safe in the house with him? Are you concerned about the safety of your kids? If so, then honestly I would leave or ask him to leave immediately.
If saftey is not your concern and you really are just wondering what the hell is going on in his head...well then I think we need to look at this a few different ways.
1- he faking this chit and trying to manipulate you into agreeing with the divorce. If this is the case I really think you only have two options. One - validate as best you can OR two take a step back and ask yourself if this is something that you really want to live with. Remember standing is a choice YOU make.
2 - if you feel that he really is that depressed I think you need to call his doctor asap. Just remember Jennifer - no one can help him except HIM. You can't make him see something that he does not want to see.
Jennifer - I feel for ya. Just know that you are going to be okay regardless of what happens.
How is your H right now?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
