Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
(((((Sandy)))))
I don't think I am too impressed. You don't ask if you can kiss someone, and then not get out of the car to say good-bye. You don't tell someone, "We will sit there". You say, "Would you like to sit in the bar? They have a nice happy hour." You don't assume they don't want a menu. Etc.
Not to make excuses but it was a booth in the bar...just no table cloths etc. Very nice restaurant.
Lots of mixed signals to me. Maybe he is just socially inept. You may be on to soomething here. He's quite brillant so maybe that's were he is lacking. I am pretty sure I could let him know he needs to do those things i.e. open the door, get out of the car and he would. But, is that a just, or part of his makeup that will nag at you every day? That is the question at large. I am kinda ok if I never saw him again... so does that mean I'm just not that into him.... of course, it could be because school is crazy righ now and I don't have the energy to deal with it.

Plus, it really made me miss FFG and the ease of our relationship. I just dont really know what to do at this point... he's a great guy but I just want casual not anything else at this point. So, I guess after Wednesday test, I will have a conversation with him regarding that.


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too