Thank you friends. I know I need to detach it just hurts so bad to hear him confirm things I have been thinking.
I AM letting him go. I'm not the one who brings up R talk and feelings. He is.
Eric, He doesn't want help. I've tried and that's when he acts like "oh, I just don't know what to do, I'm not calling any prevention hotline" I mean it seems he cries wolf and then when I call his bluff, it's not that big of a deal that I need to call the suicide prevention hotline? So, what exactly do you mean by get him help?
His mental state worries me. Alot. He told me that the counselor asked him if he thought today that he's just trying to let me go so that I find happiness with someone else? And my H said, yes, maybe I am.
