I like the new thread title and I do think your are getting better. Good for you to not text him back. Missed you sol. I've been thinking of you and praying for you all along! Sorry it's been a while.

Sol - only u know what u want. If u want to be back with him that's wonderful. My only advise would be to NOT make it easy on him. He's put you through hell for a really long time, playing with your emotions... I'm not saying to torture him back, but make sure you're not letting him off the hook either. You are worth fighting for. Remember that. He's not the prize - you are. Make him remember that!

Stay positive... you're doing great!


When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.