Co is going to address it with her. I don't accept the explanation at all . I told her to tell her S to get over it! But I can do nothing else but stay away and let the BS play out. Which it will. Co said it won't last, was an abomination. He said she needs to grow up. She has not seen him for a couple weeeks.
She has not filed. Has been very helpful with the house stuff. Co said she disconnected from me she thinks almost a year ago and it will take some time to gain her feelings. He also feels that if I go completely dark that her feelings for me will only lesson instead of build with positive interactions. Basically be nice, listen to her actively and let OG fizzle.
On here I get differnt advice. 10 years ago folks out here did not advocate the real tough approach. The last time this W and I had issues I did the wait and see approach and was patient and understanding and she came back. I know her and that works with her but I want her to respect our marriage also!!
