Country Boy: It's not clear to me that his flags were necessarily red. Let's say he'd arrived on time, all suited and booted (cowboy boots of course) in a Cadillac, held door open for you, took you to the best restaurant in town, called you honey and sweetie, etc. What color would the flags be then? They'd probably be the right color for the little old lady from Pasadena.
I knew this guy (let's call him Dutch Boy) who'd take you to the restaurant of your choice, spend lavishly and as long as you don't ask to have sex with him ahead of time he always went Dutch. And the girls were drooling all over him and getting in line.
Fact is these guys have probably gotten burned a few times too. And apparently a lot of women get turned on by the "badas*" kind of guy. You are giving yourself a break tho', taking it in good spirt and having some fun which is good.
Don't understand why the cheating H comes to mow the lawn though? Is he trying to DB or something?