By the way, when I say I know what works, I mean I know what pushes her away and what pulls her closer. But I am also doing what is necessary to correct the mistakes I made and work on myself.
You are farther along than some people are....by knowing what works. The hard part is putting what you know into action. Those darn emotions!
My advice is to stay away from her as long as possible. Build up your strength. Prepare yourself mentally before seeing her. Start right now in thinking of possible situations and what you'd say, etc.
Why were you going over there? There will always some "excuse" that sounds justified. You have to just say no thanks.
Remember this: When you lean toward her, it pushes her away. When you lean away from her.....it draws her in closer. No woman wants a needy man. She wants a sexy, confident, strong man. You know.....like Rhett Butler! A man who can laugh at her when she's acting like a silly child who thinks she cunning him. He can smile and wave.....smile and wave.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
A man who can laugh at her when she's acting like a silly child who thinks she cunning him. He can smile and wave.....smile and wave.
